Houston, well, whaddayaknow - I'M PREGNANT! If you think that straight guys are too macho to experiment with same-sex kissing, then yourewrong. I have never done anything like this before and truly would never again. Finding it with someone else just accelerates the process. Dont tell me now that youre in love with him.. | A number of years ago, while I was still married to my late husband, I befriended a guy who was an ace pianist. Stories about open relationships, swinging, polyamory and other alternative relationship structures. Scopes: okay, although the whole point of forums is [1] that they're anonymous and [2] people's problems aren't ever remotely unique enough for the poster not to potentially be literally from anywhere in the world thus unidentifiable. If you kissed a stranger, your significant other might just react by laughing or by telling you it's okay. Boyfriend kissed another girl while drunk? You knowing you can trust your husband to do the right thing when faced with temptation is all it takes for him to remain blight-free when blight (whether or not wearing fishnets) threatens. Not just, here's your marriage license good luck. If you need help or advice, you can ask Yin & Yang. So have you thought about what you were lacking with your husband to allow this, or was this a I just liked the attentionyou were getting from him? Biological ones. Unfortunately, even these last few asides are tantamount to a forum no-no called thread mutineering. I was the driver so I did not drink at all just the wto girls. Oh, I'm sure he'd be able to forgive her, LOYAL GIRL. "but the fact I work with this person and have to continue to work with him. " I don't know why I need that so much, but I do. Why would you want to do that? When you feel guilty for hurting someone you love, holding in those feelings makes it worse. Because I already had some unresolved feelings for this guy and I let him kiss me and used the fact that I was drunk as an excuse. The next time you saw your significant other you might have blurted out, I have a confession to make. Funny, I have never gotten amorous when I have had too much to drink. I like him so so much and I know I was just being drunk and ****. You went and MARRIED someone who was your best FRIEND, not your Bam!, Pow!, "oh my god there is a god!" Confesing to your husband was risky. You're the worst! Try to let it go and forgive yourself. However from what I've read passionate kissing lead to touching, petting,etc. A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2006): Hey sweetie my Name is Jilian I have a boyfriend as well and we have been dating for 3 months, I have had past relationships that have gone on for 11 months, I have cheated on my past boyfriend andi felt so terrible andi was in the same situation as you are, sweetie i know how you feel. "what the hell where we at?" The first step to a broken loyalty is a first kiss. We've not made it exclusive yet but we did agree to not see other people at the beginning. Did You Know Anxiety Can Enhance Our Relationships? Jam, your wife holds the cards. Can Humans Detect Text by AI Chatbot GPT? Need help with your relationship? How Psychologically Conditioned Rats Are Defusing Landmines, The Innate Intelligence Observed in the Dying Process. You wanna tell your husband? I certainly took full responsibility for my actions, and fortunately the guy I kissed also took responsibility for his actions. male SOULMATE NO URGE :-8 I'm sensing nose in the air LOL You must see The Grand Canyon, New York- Theater/Art so much raw talent, Well you need to figure that out and fast. Free weekly email, Insta, and more - > https://linktr.ee/monogamish_me. Guess what his response was? If I were the husband and some how found out through a second party my trust would be broken. But, again, it's never what you do, it's the way that you do it, meaning I was careful to be sensitive in the telling. this guy only tried to kiss you so as far as you cheating on him there is no and your appropriate response was toback away and leave the guy standing. ;-) Sadly, many people who have a crush on someone else purposely get drunk or get the other person drunk in order to find out if they have any chemistry with each other, and they temporarily forget about the fact that they are already in a relationship with another person. Or do I? He was so drunk himself that he started singing I Love Paris and, in the middle of the song, he said in a gruff voice, You wanna kiss me? Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. There was a line that was crossed when they kissed, he should no longer have her as a Facebook friend, or any other communication with her. Unforeseeable consequence. I myself will have to comment tomorrow, now, although maybe SK and anyone else would like to join in in the meantime? Don't feel guilty. Perhaps this one is geared more toward the ladies, but I feel pretty confident in assuming that no matter the . reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): A He deserves the right to make the decision on whether he can forgive you and move on with you. She had gone to bed. I don't see any good coming from me confessing, only hurt and upset and doubt, and think my time would be better spent working on my relationship, and working through the issues that are putting so much pressure on us at the moment. focus on you and your DH. The short answer to your question, for this BPD is: No, I don't feel guilty. The drunk part won't matter to him because his mind will only think about the kiss. female Yes, I think if your boyfriend thinks his girl or boy or whatever is gonna be loyal to them even under the influence. if you believe you have to tell him exactly as you did here , if your friends you were with are also his say he can ask them . But I don't see the need to borrow trouble by telling your boyfriend if you have learned your lesson and know you will never do something like that again. It was such a weird experience. FoxieLadie is HIKARI, you can't take up an obsolete thread as your own, no matter any similarities, so if you want feedback and advice it's best to start a new one (and copy and paste that post into it as your opening post), okay? 2. You can confess to your significant other and accept the consequences, knowing that you might hurt your partner by confessing. A female friend of mine was staying at our house for the weekend. 4 days ago. Even though it took her a while to make that choice, she both never recognized her role and then made a series of bad choices after. Wife of 8 years straddled and flirted with my friend last night while drunk My Girlfriend Kissed Another Guy whilst Black-Out Drunk. We were good friends for a few years and have dated in the past but nothing serious. That's a long time for kissing. I felt a mixture of excitement and flattery and nerves. When you go out and get drunk- if you find yourself attracted to another man- think back to how you feel now after you acted on that attraction. drunk, kissing. If you feel like this about yourself then you may be worrying about what he will do while he's at university. We started kissing again and he took my T shirt off and I briefly started kissing his body. So - no - if I feel like entertaining myself, I only have to think of my favourite joke about, what do you call a dinosaur with only one eye? Okay if it was me who did that even thou I dont drink Ill first ask him as if its someone else who did it, like a friend or a colleague and if he overracts then think again but if hes all cool about it then break ice. I have posted a vent and been waiting for your scathing reply. I wouldn't want to hear about it if I were in his position. So you went and MARRIED someone who was your best FRIEND, not your already Bam!, Pow!, "oh my god there is a god!" Him coming to you within 2 days of his wayward deed , when he could have easily gotten away with it, this is something to consider. Houston, this team needs to rectify the causes or agree to seek outside help in it whilst this one team member needs to atone for having almost embarked on a hurtful and potentially damaging test unilaterally without her teammate's consent. Then the women who owns the house went upstairs and never came down. He's a nice guy and we get on, but I don't know how I'm gonna face him talk about normal work things. You have been dating this guy for only two months and it's not serious yet. And then continued behaving like friends as if the mere certificate would do the work and promotion parts for you (or, alternatively, continued accepting the fact that ONE friend couldn't quite dare up his friendship ante to where you felt sated in the affection and attention worthy of marriage department) So if for some reason he'd got funny about it, I'd have just dealt with it. My husband always encouraged me to pursue music, and, when I told him that this guy wanted to give me advanced piano lessons, my husband was in favor of this. in all the years we are together I have never ever done anything like this before, and I can say with confidence I will never allow myself to end up in any situation that could lead to anything even close to this again. And as for our original subject, who knows maybe she told him. SA you have got it- it is more the "what's behind it" than what happened. For the last few years we have been trying for a baby and are currently going through tests to try find out why it's not happening. I had had an argument with my fianc because I found a suspicious text from a woman , he became very mad . Kissed someone on vakation while drunk, cheating or not? You had too much to drink and you kissed someone who wasnt your boyfriend or your girlfriend. I'm not going to let that or any insulting aspersions, subtle or otherwise, put me off. Again - your choice. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. (SK, that award doesn't exist. I am NOT looking forward to spotting him in the corridor at workHOW EMBARRASSING!. (y) stop any contact (outside of work) immediately. So, you went to a party and everyone was drinking. Whoever did it, doesnt matter. Cheaters remorse. Kissed another man four years ago and NOW feeling guilty. I just knew you would cheat on me if given half a chance.. I'm disgusted with myself to think I would do that after just the tiniest bit of attention and flattery. I'd never be able to get over it. For starters, your husband, even when supposedly immature, didn't kiss HER. She has just sent a private message to him on FB. With the other woman just across the room! I agree with Vale that the best thing you can do is talk to Cintia about what happened and tell her that seeing her kissing Mercy upset you. As one young man said " time heals" and he's so right. This thread has expired - why not start your own? Have another little thinkipoos (with or without a little drinkipoos). The other day, I had a first with my partner Flo: I put my tongue in another mans mouth while he stood by only to observe. NOT telling your partner is not protecting your partner and your marriage, it's self-protection against having to do the work called, Atonement, so you can ignore likeminded proponents whose choice from the excuses menu is that (yawn) telling your partner is a selfish act geared towards offloading some of the guilt when actually, perfectly logically, if the marriage is half theirs then so is the responsibility over the fact it degenerated to that point in the first place (excluding the choice-of-unilateral-action part, obviously)because that's how it works. ;-). Most people would never confess that's the reality. [2] ..you showed you don't think of he and you as a team by sharing all information pertinent to the relationship; But we have spoken since about it a lot. Why stab your partner in the heart, just to see if the relationship will still survive? Feeling guilt when dumping the guy : r/datingoverthirty One of the best ways is to offer effective apologies. The guilt may be strong because you doubt yourself right now and were surprised by your actions. 3. He has morals. It's not worth the headaches, nausea, acid reflux, stomach pain, or insomnia you may be experiencing. I remember saying 'no, no, this is bad' in the middle of it, and he said 'I know but I really like you and I have done for ages', and he kissed me again, but this time only for a second because I said ' I really can't do this, I have no excuse, I'm married and he's lovely, it's not like I'm unhappy, he's a good person' then he kinda just stroked my arm and said 'I know, your right, it's just I'm really attracted to you and couldn't not act on it, I'm sorry, you're right'.

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